Law of Conservation of Suffering in Life

Law of Conservation of Suffering in Life

1. Law of Conservation of Suffering

There is a ” law of conservation of suffering” in this world: suffering is the basic feature of life. The total amount of suffering for a person’s whole life is constant. It will neither disappear nor arise without reason. It will only move from one stage to another or from one form to another.

Suffering is a basic attribute of life. The more you choose to run away from it now, the more you have to sacrifice more to deal with it in the future.

Life has always been a master at creating various grievances. The grievances it can offer are multifarious in items and styles: for example, efforts are denied, hard work is not recognized, patience is not exchanged for understanding, sincerity is not accepted, silent efforts are not fruitful … And life is not fully accountable for them.

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Solitude is a very important ability.

Solitude is a very important ability

Schopenhauer had a very incisive comment on socializing and solitude. He said: ” Living in a social crowd necessarily requires people to accommodate and tolerate each other. Therefore, the bigger the party, the more likely it is to become boring. Only when a person is alone can he become himself completely. If anyone does not love solitude, then he does not love freedom, because only when one is alone, he is free. Formality and constraint inevitably accompany social gatherings. ” He also said an interesting sentence: ” The upper class needs to become mediocre to attend social gatherings.”

In high school, I met a Chinese teacher, Mr. Li Tiecheng. After he returned to Zhengzhou in 1981, we had not met for 20 years. I had the opportunity to go to Zhengzhou on business. I asked Zhengzhou’s friends to help me find him and finally met him in Zhengzhou. Twenty years later, I saw a teacher with rich hair. In a very ordinary and simple study, he wrote the world-renowned masterpiece New Tao Te Ching, which is praised as the most incisive exposition of life issues since the May 4th Movement. With his painstaking efforts, he made masterpieces such as Sacrifice to Emperor Yan, Monument to Emperor Xuanyuan, Monument to Confucius, etc. As the teacher said: ” I am a lonely person, I am always lonely, but I am an independent thinker”. When I came back from Zhengzhou, I was immersed in the conversation with my teacher. I looked at the poems and poems sent by my teacher again. I recalled the teacher’s indifference to material life. I understood more and more that character and realm are enriched by inner thoughts.

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People who say they don’t like socializing are likely to have problems with their brain’s braking system.

Neuroscience, Reading, Psychology

The reason why we want to socialize is because our brain, born this way, was originally designed to penetrate into the hearts of others and interact with them.

Why do we say that our brains are naturally social
Matthew Lieberman is the founder of social neuroscience. He is a psychology professor at the University of California, Los Angeles and director of the Social Cognitive Neuroscience Laboratory. Lieberman was also awarded the ” Outstanding Science Award” by the American Psychological Association in 2007 for his contribution in the field of social cognitive neuroscience.

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