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Scale of life
Life is an art, and the most important thing is to grasp the scale. Everyone has a ruler in his heart, which can be used to measure others and himself. If there is no ruler in the heart, life will have no height. As the saying goes, the world is unpredictable, and the difficulty lies in impermanence; everything has a degree, and the degree lies in justness. Doing things properly is the greatest learning in life; being a man properly is the highest state of life. It is indeed not easy to control the scale of “just right” in life, but it is also a measure to grasp the scale,…
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Half of the marriage is the best model
What is the best model for marriage? Many people think that 1+1≥2, two people together should have more gains. This model looks perfect, but in real life, it is often difficult to maintain this model. My friend Xiaorong is a person who loves sports. He likes to go hiking on weekends, and he is a person who loves to be lively. And Afang is lazy and homely, usually likes to play games at home, and is a person who loves to be alone. Such two people with completely different hobbies and personalities not only got married, but also lived happily ever after for 7 years. It turned out that at…
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Tips for Surviving a Marital Crisis
After marrying Daming, our life has been very happy, but since I became pregnant, I have anxiety. Originally, I had a cleanliness addiction, but with the impact of the epidemic, I cleaned my house like clockwork every day. Daming would always say to me in a caring but somewhat incomprehensible tone: “My wife, our house is clean enough, and you are still pregnant with a baby. I really can’t bear to see you busy all the time. Just eat and drink at home.” Well, it’s enough to take care of your health, and you really don’t need to care about the rest.” I got angry when I heard this,…
