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    Why We Sabotage Our Ability to Feel Loved and How to Break free from this Cycle

      Only when you are aware of the trap of not being loved can you consciously change and enjoy the feeling of being loved.   We mentioned the concept of “compulsive repetition” in our last column. In intimate relationships, many people will repeatedly create traumatic situations similar to those in their early years, allowing themselves to experience the same pain over and over again. This manifests itself as follows: In interactions with the other person, one clearly desires to be loved, but often interprets the other person’s behavior in a negative light and refuses to allow oneself to feel loved.   On the surface, this is self-abuse, not pursuing happiness, but letting yourself…

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