Most people describe “sexy” as “sultry” and “alluring”, which is attractive to the opposite sex. In fact, sex appeal is more than sexual desire and sexual conquest. The latest article published on the US “Psychology Today” website published the “8 advantages of sexy people” summarized by American emotion expert Dr. Randy Gussel.
1. Very naughty, naughty and sexy people are naughty. When choosing a partner, they enjoy it, but it doesn’t matter whether they succeed. Before they find the other half, they will be happy alone. They can be immersed in the state of “no matter what happens, I am very happy” and let others decide whether to join. It can be said that they are sexy, naughty, and naughty.
2. Maintaining vigor and energy. Sexy people like to do or not, love to experience, and love to explore; they are healthy and pay attention to health care; work and rest are combined to maintain vigorous energy; they are always passionate about life and are good at discovering the beauty in life. This mentality can also infect the people who get along with it.
3. Have a happy mentality No matter whether you have a partner or not, sexy people are born with contentment and happiness. The mentality of contentment and happiness is the source of happiness, which makes it easier for sexy people to associate with the opposite sex and enjoy the relationship with their partners.
4. Not unattainable. Sexy people feel a little “out of reach”. In fact, they are not unattainable, but they are not surprised, never eager for success, and will give their partners enough time to observe and gain trust.
5. Know how to let go in time. Sexy people are very talented in grasping the interpersonal rhythm. They can make free choices about whether to become a partner or not according to the development of the relationship between the two. When the two love each other, they can devote themselves to each other, and when they are no longer attracted to each other, they also know how to let go rationally, and will not be miserable or make senseless persistence.
6. People who can grasp the sense of sexiness can make the other party feel pursued and give the other party enough sense of security. Because finding a partner is actually a process of chasing and capturing. Sexy people can keep a sense of measure in this process, which not only retains a sense of security but also makes each other more attractive.
7. In terms of choosing a spouse that doesn’t value the result too much, sexy people will invest more time and energy to find a good relationship. They believe that the result of this fate does not need to be planned in advance, but depends on the process of two people getting along. Only by not obsessing with the established goal can you explore all kinds of possibilities to your heart’s content. When the time comes, the result is perfect.
8. People who are caring for their partners to the point of sensuality know what their partners think. Regardless of whether the partner makes a request, they will give each other meticulous care in all aspects such as spiritual and emotional. They can appear accurately in their partners’ lives and know what to do to make each other feel comfortable. They know everything about their partners’ expectations.